In Your Shoes
Ever wish that you could have the lifestyle of someone you truly admire? Perhaps it’s the lifestyle of the “rich and famous” like a movie star, or a singer? How do you think people would react if one day you decided to start acting like a “diva extraordinaire,” or a megastar actor? My guess is that your family might want to have you admitted for observation. Would the ramification be any less serious if you instead decided to imitate your next door neighbor or business mentor? Perhaps, your family and friends would not rush you to a facility, but I’ll bet they’ll still be quite puzzled. Unfortunately this type of behavior occurs all the time. Someone realizes that they don’t have what they want, so they look at the people who do and decide to copy their actions expecting to achieve the desired result. Alas, they frequently find themselves disappointed.Graciella has “the life.” She just got the promotion that Tina secretly coveted, along with the huge office, has a wonderful house in the suburbs, the newest sport utility vehicle for bad weather and a flashy convertible for fun, a successful husband who loves to cook, and two darling children. When Tina compared her life to Graciella’s with the second mortgage, the one car that may or may not get her to work, and the cubicle the size of a shoebox, she couldn’t help but feel a tad short-changed. She didn’t begrudge Graciella the things she had achieved, but desperately wanted them for herself. So, Tina decided that if she wanted a similar lifestyle, she needed to behave in a very similar manner.Tina became a “mini-Graciella.” She began to dress like Graciella, mimic her actions, and even eat similar things. At first Graciella was mildly amused, but quickly became annoyed and a tad concerned over Tina’s behavior. Tina’s metamorphosis did not go unnoticed by her other co-workers, and she suddenly found herself getting the attention she desired, but for all the wrong reasons. Her boss quickly became dissatisfied with her work because he relied upon the unique insight that Tina had brought to the table. After about a month of this troubling behavior he called her into his office. She anticipated the meeting with excitement. She just knew that he was going to offer her the remaining promotion. Why wouldn’t he? After all she had been doing exactly the same things as Graciella. Tina could not understand why her boss was not smiling when she walked in, as they had always had an easy relationship.After Tina sat he explained to her that she had been a shoe-in for the promotion until about a month before. He went on to say that instead of promoting her as he had hoped, he was actually issuing an informal warning because her performance had been seriously sub-standard. He told her that she had lost the promotion to another employee, but that she would have another chance in about a year, providing that her current issue was rectified immediately. Before she left he patted her hand and told her that one Graciella in the office was enough, but they really needed the input, intelligence, and insight that Tina brought to the team. As Tina walked back to her tiny cubicle fighting tears, she realized how creepy she had been behaving. She had willingly abandoned who she was, her unique traits, her quirky sense of humor, and her unerringly sense of intuition for her job. At what cost? She almost lost a job she truly enjoyed, was ostracized from people that she had worked with for years, and had move herself even further from her goals.There are a number of ways that Tina could have handled the situation, but the most effective way would have been by embracing her uniqueness. Tina lost track of what was working for her and focused on what she wanted that she didn’t have.Tina forgot to embrace the qualities that made her Tina, to put those positive vibrations out into the universe so that those wonderful qualities of hers would attract more of the lifestyle that she desired. Tina got too caught up in “falling in line” and forgot that marching to her own tune could be just as much fun, and bring success on its own. Success tailored to Tina, the type that is the perfect fit for her because she attracted it to suit her qualities, desires, abilities, and spirit.Remember to be your own unique self, be it similar to someone else or completely different, just be true to you. That authenticity and honesty is the heart of you, the heart from which your vibrations are unleashed. Honest thoughts, vibrations, and actions will produce amazing results that are so in-line with what you truly desire.
Finding The Best Furniture For You: Domain Furniture and Mirrored Furniture
Those searching for home furnishings may wish to consider choosing pieces that have a distinct period feel to them, as this is an ideal way in which to ensure that one’s furniture will have its own original attractiveness, different from that seen in other homes. Regardless of one’s personal taste, the addition of mirrored furniture to a home is an excellent way in which to use the home’s space to its best advantage.Going Mod with Mirrored FurnitureCurrently experiencing an increase in popularity in the home interiors market, mirrored furniture is a great choice when one wishes to make his or her home truly unique. Such furniture is also an excellent way in which a feeling of spaciousness can be added to the room. Whether one chooses mirrored consoles or dressing tables, he or she will find that such items fit well into any room’s decor.In order to make certain that one’s home will still look modern even when vintage pieces are used, he or she should choose neutral, rather than bright colors. In this way a seamless look can be created through the blending of both old and new pieces.Distressed Furniture–Decorating Shabby ChicAnother popular trend in home decor is the look of shabby chic. Pieces that fit into this category have a worn and aged look and the colors and shapes are often reflective of the past. This result of this look is a welcoming and informal appearance that both the homeowner and his or her visitors will enjoy.The addition of regency furniture is a nice way in which this look can be updated, and since classic furniture never go out of style, there are many options from which one can choose when selecting these types of pieces.Incorporating furniture styles from various periods into a modern home is a great way to add a personal touch and a unique flair to any room in one’s home. If a person finds that he or she cannot afford new furniture or authentic antiques, contemporary reproductions are a great cost-effective alternative.Domain furniture is a popular retailer that has been in business since nineteen eighty-two. It is now at the top of the market, since it sells various styles in both commercial and personal. New, stylish designs in every price range can be found at both outlets and retail stores. You also have the option of choosing between simple and extravagant. You can even get personal designs made to suit your space and budget requirements. Whatever your needs, whether commercial or personal, Domain furniture offers something for you.Sun-Room FurnishingsSun rooms are common in the south, but are rapidly becoming more so everywhere else. Domain offers such a wide variety of styles, colors, and prices that each and every buyer is sure to find something appropriate to them. There are material options which include wrought iron, raw wood, panacea and timber. Wicker is also a popular choice in indoor/outdoor furniture. Along with the choice in material, the buyer has options on how, and where, to buy. Besides going to a retail store, there are outlets that offer domain furniture. If your tastes run further from stores, you can also go onto their website or order from a catalog. domain produces sunroom furniture that is durable, reliable, and beautiful. You are sure to find the perfect balance between functionality and art.ExclusiveIf you desire something more unique than you can easily get at a store, domain offers exclusive furniture. For some, the option of designing their own furniture outweighs the slightly higher price that goes with it. If space is an issue, you can find people to help you choose furniture that will fit perfectly inside the space you have available. Domain offers full service help along with the do-it-yourself way.